Soggy & Magical.

It was a perfect mid-morning coffee break.  New organic blend.  Steamy and fresh.  PBS on the tube and my girlies chillin’ on the sofa.  
I really needed that five minutes.
Then I left the room for like a minute.  I swear.  I only went to return a stray hairbrush to the bathroom drawer.  I sat down to catch up on email and sipped my lovely coffee when something the consistency of pasty, wet cotton ball was introduced to my mouth.
(Cough.  Gag.  Regurgitate.)
Hmmm.  I studied the debris field splorfed out before me in a methodical, CSI-ish manner.  Of course.  This could be none other than a soggy tortilla chip strategically placed in my coffee. 
Let me reiterate the fact that I was gone for “like a minute.”  Mere seconds.  This was definitely the handiwork of my little Lovey.  Yes.  The 2-year-old. 
And I have to say that this scenario is rather indicative of my life at the moment.  It seems that every time I turn around.  Soggy.  In mere seconds.  Mush.  

This is merely a season.  A tough frustrating exciting, faith-building season.  I believe the best things in life happen when you are pushed beyond what you believe to be your own limits.  However, I find it increasingly difficult to wait.  And wait.  And wait some more.  I have never been accused of being patient.  But I’m trying.  Really.  And the not-so-distant future is shaping up to be pretty darn promising.

(Remember the Fridge Flap from February?  Yeah.  Still living out of cooler… for reasons I hope to divulge soon.)

Fast forward to the afternoon.  We stopped to visit my hubby at work.  I left for like a minute.  Mere seconds.  And there it was.  The office floor displaying a crayon mural.  Snap!  Lovey looked up at me and said, “Isn’t it magical?” 

And she was mostly right.  

Beautiful messes can be downright magical. 

” Your beauty and love chase after me
      every day of my life.
   I’m back home in the house of God
      for the rest of my life.” 

Psalm 23.6 (The Message)

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Sisters.

We are three.
Two.  Plus.  One.
Sisters.  Friends.  Treasures.
I count it blessing that God saw fit to grant me two beautiful sisters.  There are but 2 1/2 years that separate us, but I remember the day well.  I spent the day at Grammy & Grandpie’s house while we anxiously awaited a phone call from the hospital.  (Remember those days?  Before play-by-play facebook status updates.  Before routine ultrasounds.  Before…)
Grammy graciously let me take the call.  There was elation.  And disappointment.  My mother shared the news as Grammy excitedly asked, “So… what are they???”  With a long face, I answered,  “They’re white ones.”  I had desperately wanted “chocolate” babies and no matter how many times it was explained to me that this wouldn’t be possible for our family… I wished for a miracle.  
In the end, it worked out.  I had two sisters to love and laugh with, tickle and torture, and we would share the wonder of life together.  
And as a consolation prize, I was awarded a “chocolate” baby doll.  The consolation prizes would continue for years.  I looked forward to March 13.  Being the odd one out during the twins’ birthday apparently earned me the privilege of presents.  (Boy, did I have them fooled.  I would have been happy with cake…)

Today we may be separated by distance (albeit less distance than other times of our lives), yet we are bound in heart and in spirit.  My greatest wish is for my three little lovelies to embrace the strength, sincerity, and support of sisterhood.

I love you, Sweet Sisters.  
Happy Twentytenth Birthday! 


“Lord, help the mister, who comes between me and my sister…”

Half Right.

Last week, I had myself pretty convinced that my household appliances were plotting against me.
It began when my vacuum sweeper decided to get temperamental with me back in December.  (She’s still plugging along, but I am not sure how much more I am willing to put up with.)
Then, as you may recall, it was my refrigerator (Oh, blessed timing.)
Last week, it was my washing machine.  I went to the basement to switch the laundry into the dryer, when I realized everything was still sopping wet.  Drenched.  Deluged.  (Hmmm.  Spin cycle, much?)  The normally plastered-to-the-sides pile of clothes was soaking in a heap at the bottom of the washer.  I set the washer to spin again, thinking it a minor fluke.  Ten seconds in and the hot aroma of something terribly wrong arrested my senses.  Stop the machine.
My eyes shifted to the neatly sorted piles of laundry awaiting my attention.  I blinked back tears.  This couldn’t be happening.  I looked back at my machine with severe disdain.  Don’t you know we are in the midst of some pretty intense potty training here???  How could you?
Dear hubby arrived home for lunch.  The conversation went much like the refrigerator variety only a couple of weeks prior.  He wanted to try to repair it.  This time I didn’t fight.  I just needed it done.  
DH claimed operator error.  (Very funny.)  I had a hunch.  A theory.  What if one of those tiny little girl socks had creeped over the edge of the basin and lodged just so that it jammed the spin cycle?  He balked and still cried operator error.  *sigh*  
Three days later, (and laundry accumulating all the while…) my sweetheart finally made an attempt to fix the washing machine.  Thanks to the manual, YouTube videos, and the company of a friend, he managed to disassemble my nemesis.  
And lo and behold… a tiny sock wedged.  Just so.  
I was half-right.  But to be fair, so was he.  This “operator,” in a zealous quest to conquer the laundry overfilled the machine.  Again.  
Guilty.  As.  Charged.
If anyone needs me, I will be up to my eyeballs in a week’s worth of laundry.  
But not until after I’ve had a coffee… or two.
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Pinteresting.

So I (and pretty much the rest of the world) have become completely and wholeheartedly obsessed with Pinterest.  It certainly is getting a lot of attention these days.  If you are not already familiar with this delightful corner of the internet, let me introduce you.

“Pinterest, meet Coffee Lover.  Coffee Lover, you have now been sucked into a vortex whose habitual tendencies are second only to the power of a steamy caffeinated beverage.  Resistance.  Is.  Futile.”

Pinterest is a virtual bulletin board where users can create “boards” to which they “pin” the things they love from all around the web.  I have boards devoted to recipes, crafts, fashion, etc.  It’s a social network of sorts where you can view what your friends are pinning and vice versa.  Pinterest literally becomes a visual “Favorites” that is much more comprehensive, interesting and well, let’s face it… just plain fun.  The possibilities are endless.  Baby shower ideas, seasonal crafts, inspirational quotes.

I also use Pinterest to save money by crafting meaningful gifts at home.  (About my 75% of my most recent Christmas gifts were Pinterest inspirations!)  Another of my favorite ways to use Pinterest is to find new ways to upcycle things I would ordinarily throw away.  

Here are some of my favorites:

(Be sure to click on the links to see pics!)

Tic Tac container:  Perfect for storing bobby pins.  (No matter how hard I try, my kidlets will continually have bobby pins roaming freely all over the bathroom drawer.)

Bread Clips:  Those little plastic tabs that keep the bread bag closed (which my children routinely lose before the bread is gone) can be used as labels and clipped onto the tangles of cords plugged into any given power strip. 

Entertainment Center:  You know those old boxy things running rampant at yard sales and thrift stores that won’t fit most TVs anymore?  They get new life as a play kitchen!


Pop Tab:  Incognito picture hanger.

Travel Soap Dish:  I dare you to find a better card game organizer.  It’s also the perfect size for holding a box of crayons!

Cheese Grater:  Painted in a whimsical color, this former kitchen gadget is a novel earring holder.

Old Bath Towels:  Turn them into a cozy bath mat.

Cardboard Salt Container:  Cut off the top to the size of a Mason jar and use the canning ring to secure it.  Voila!  A pour-top jar.

Wooden Ladder:  Turned sideways and mounted to a wall, it becomes a bookshelf.

And that’s just the beginning…

Have an overabundance of something and no idea what to do with it?  Pinterest it.  I’ve had bags of those popsicle craft sticks sitting in a cupboard forever.  Type “popsicle sticks” into the Pinterest search box and looky here.  Who knew, right?

Seriously, what’s not to love?  Come Pinterest with me. 

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Coverings.

I have daughters.  

Three.  Pretty.  Girls.

They are my dearest treasure.  The joy of my heart.  Love made real.


They are bubbly, vivacious, and cunning.  They are 7, 5, and 2.  And did I mention they are beautiful?  

How does one guard and protect such stunning effervescence from the wiles of a wayward world?  My sweetheart continually prays that God would “shield them from the eyes of wicked men.”  Could sweeter words be prayed over these precious gifts?  


So much to live for.  So much to be gained.  So much ahead.  I want nothing to hinder what goodness lies in wait for the future of my angels.  


And what should prompt such an intense line of thinking?  Today, I commenced bathing suit shopping.   

For 7.  5.  And 2.   

Label me a prude if you must, but I did not anticipate such a difficult task for… 

7.  5.  And 2.

My dear husband was specific about his standards in the most affectionately paternal way possible.  I can’t imagine anything more tender than a father desiring a covering for his daughters.  In the same way that he covers them in prayer, in wisdom, and in discipline.   

In the same way my father did for me. 

I found success in our quest.  But I only expect such things to grow more difficult with each passing year.  I do not pass judgment, but simply provoke my own heart to guard, in all things, those which have been entrusted to me.

My deepest desire is that my sweet little girls remain sweet little girls for as 

Long.  As.  Possible.

Love and coffee… 


Peanut, Ladybug, & Lovey
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On winter.

It certainly has been an unusual Iowa winter.  Temps soaring well into the 50s and 60s and hardly any snow.  I have to say I am disappointed.  I kind of anticipated a rip-roaring sort of winter and my, what a let-down.  

As I write, one more insignificant snow is under way.  Probably less than two inches.  And since they are forecasting 40s and 50s for the weekend, I don’t expect my little white miracle to last long.

As February is drawing quickly to a close, I will admit that I am beginning to long for spring.  We have had one fairly decent snow, pounded each other in a snowball fight, and constructed a regal blue Snow Queen.  It is somewhat hard to believe that only two years ago we were digging out from three major blizzards and a monster of an ice storm that left us without power for nearly four days. 

My sweet girls (including my then-only-months-old Lovey) were bundled head-to-toe in coats and snow pants.  Inside.  When all was said and done the temperature was down to just 41 degrees.  Inside.  The first night was the longest.  We nary slept a wink, flinching at every boom-pop-fizzle-flash of transformers blowing all over town and listening to the crick-a-crack of weighted ice-branches free-falling (and praying they were mostly landing away from the house).  

All five of us snuggled together in one of the girls’ bedrooms during those nights (the one furthest from the trees.)  Still bundled up and buried under every blanket, sleeping bag, and bed comforter we could gather, we fell asleep ridiculously early, just after dark.  We told stories by candlelight and fell asleep to the battery-powered radio.

Walking to the car meant performing a carefully choreographed routine over every ice-glossed surface and going as quickly and non-haphazardly as one could to avoid any rogue branches on their way down.


That winter, we shoveled.  And shoveled.  And shoveled.  And selfishly wished for a snow blower.   And then shoveled some more.

Now that was a winter I could be proud of.  

A few memorable moments from Winter 2009-2010:

Yikes.  Poor neighbor-truck.
It’s a good thing we had a shovel.  
Ice, Ice, Baby.


Down the street.

The other side of the street.

At any rate, I am ready to move on.  March is fast approaching and I am ready to see green.  

Winter, I fully expect a stronger showing next year.

“Coffee: creative lighter fluid.”  ~Floyd Maxwell

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Presidential Pause.

It’s okay.  I am fully aware of my nerd status.  I love American history.  Especially presidential history.  I read about it in my spare time.  (I remain heartbroken that following the laundry room crisis, I had to dispose of several beloved presidential history volumes that have yet to be replaced.)

I home school my girls and you better believe we talk about such things whenever the opportunity presents itself (and even when it doesn’t).  

Our recent President’s Day this past Monday definitely presented opportunity for discussion of our fine heritage.  We did trivia and coloring sheets and watched a video about Lincoln’s boyhood.  

I was in heaven until…

I heard my two oldest girls squabbling in the other room.

“Why don’t you just go to Washington D.C.!” 

Alright.  Lesson over.  I think we have all had enough.  

(I suppose she could have uttered something slightly worse…)

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Reasoning.

If it seems that this blog has become somewhat sporadic and unpredictable, it’s because it has.  Since our move in December, life has been slow to regain routine and sensibility.  And some days I am pretty sure I am losing my mind.  

Hubby and I have been praying about and anticipating some big changes in our lives.  It seems that things are moving in the right direction, yet I am reluctant to share exactly what that might be until all is said and done.  My heart is full and my mind is consumed with many details.  (Don’t worry.  This has nothing to do with adding children to the household.)

I am doing my best to keep up with all things bloggy.  Keep checking in.  I am still around.  And the coffee is still flowing freely.  

Long-held dreams seem to be materializing and that is always exciting.

And if all goes according to plan, there will plenty of blogworthy moments to share…

“Be alert, be present. I’m about to do something brand-new.
   It’s bursting out! Don’t you see it?
There it is! I’m making a road through the desert,
   rivers in the badlands.



Isaiah 43.19 (MSG)

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Rest In Peace, My Frigid Friend.

I first suspected something was up the evening before.  I sampled a bit of cheese that did not seem quite cold enough, but I easily shrugged it off.

Dear hubby had an inkling the next morning, when the milk tasted warm, but in his haste to get to work on time chalked it up to nothing.

It wasn’t until the noon hour when I realized something smelled fishy.  Like literally.  I opened the freezer to prepare lunch and caught a skin-crawling whiff of “something-seriously-died-in-here.”

What the heck?

I cautiously poked a package of ground beef.  Mush.  My homemade turkey stock.  Slosh.  And the deer steaks?  Forget about it.  They were history.

I am embarrassed to say I haven’t cooked much in the last week or so.  In the last seven days we have had no less than 5 parties/banquets to attend or host.  (And two more big events I am hosting/planning in the coming week!  Not sure how this all got on the calendar in such a tight span of time, but its never happening again.)  So yeah.  My life is pretty intense right now.  Who could blame me for not noticing that my faithful fridge had gone kaput?  At least the light bulb was still working.

Don’t get me wrong.  I am not entirely disappointed.  Inconvenienced?  Yes.  Devastated?  Not completely.  You see, we have been waiting for this to happen.  Old Faithful’s days were numbered.  We inherited her from my parents in 2005.  Prior to that, my parents received her circa 1995 from friends who rescued her from yet another previous owner.  (I am confident she is almost as old as I am.) 

When I made the disgustingly delightful discovery, I phoned my sweet hubby at work right away.  (“Houston, we have a problem.”)  Of course, he was involved in a lunch meeting so after I hastily broke the news, he quickly muttered something like “I’ll look into getting it repaired and call you back later.”    

*sigh*   

Not exactly the response I was hoping for.  What he didn’t understand was that my 2-days-ago grocery trip was entirely spoiled and I had three feisty children begging me for lunch.  (And I really, really wanted a new refrigerator.  Like something manufactured in this century.)  

This called for an impromptu trip to Subway and a quest to find something from the grocery store for dinner that wouldn’t require any refrigeration.  My solution?

Soup.
Crackers.
Fruit.

Then the phone rang.  And I heard it.  “Honey, I think maybe it’s time we look into getting a new refrigerator.”  Sweeter words could not have been spoken in that moment.  


So I’m going refrigerator shopping.  Soon.  For the first time ever 

Suggestions?  I’d love to hear what you like.  (Or don’t like.)

I don’t need a Cadillac and I am definitely on a budget, but after all these years, I’m in the market for something pretty stinkin’ nice.


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Love and Cheese.

Beyond measure.  Blessed.  The man I call my husband is my greatest treasure.  My best friend.  My confidante.  My life.

I love this man.

And today in celebration of love, I honor him.  My hero.  My knight.  My heart.

Traditionally, my sweetie and I take turns plotting our Valentine’s Day shenanigans.  And there isn’t usually much that is very traditional about it.  Sure, red roses are pretty standard, but I’ve always preferred yellow.  Conversation hearts are a chalky distraction and cheap chocolate will never find room in my heart.

A couple of years ago, it was my turn.  (I have found that finding a great babysitter on Valentine’s Day is pretty darn near impossible so we whisk the kids off to bed a trifle early and plan a quiet evening at home together.)  That particular year, I prepared a cheese tasting for two.  By candlelight.  I like my cheese the same way I like my coffee and my chocolate.  Rich, indulgent, and flavorful.

I carefully cut and prepared several cheeses and arranged them on a silver tray.  I served a sparkling white grape juice, crackers, grapes, and of course… Ghirardelli chocolates.  The cheeses included a hearty Gruyere, an imported Irish white cheddar, and a creamy brie.  I do not exaggerate when I say the cheese that stole the evening was the Limburger.  My hubby and I had never tasted Limburger before.  In fact, the only knowledge I had of the stinky cheese was from the crazy antics I had seen from actors on various tv shows and movies. I was convinced they were exaggerating.

I.  Was.  Wrong.


I have never before tasted a rotting rat carcass, but I am pretty sure it must taste something like Limburger cheese.  My dear husband wouldn’t even allow me to keep it in the refrigerator for fear of it contaminating the neighboring food.  (Of course, it was one of the more costly cheeses, but into the trash it went.)  Up until that evening, I had never met a cheese I couldn’t get along with.  


(After the cheese, the evening took a delightfully bizarre turn which resulted in a Perfect Strangers marathon.  Yeah, remember those guys???  Perhaps it was the Limburger talking…)


Last year, for Lee’s turn, he erred on the side of caution and surprised me with a new coffee machine, a pound of my favorite brew, and a box of good chocolate.  

Divine perfection.

This year’s antics are yet to be seen… but I do believe it’s my turn

Happy Valentine’s Day!  I wish you love, happiness, and coffee.



Coffee and love are best when they are hot.”



My favorite Limburger cheese movie moment…

 


 Hang my locket around your neck,
   wear my ring on your finger.
Love is invincible facing danger and death.
   Passion laughs at the terrors of hell.
The fire of love stops at nothing—
   it sweeps everything before it.
Flood waters can’t drown love,
   torrents of rain can’t put it out.
Love can’t be bought, love can’t be sold—
   it’s not to be found in the marketplace.
Song of Sologmon 8.6-8 (MSG)

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