Snow Queen.



Isn’t she beautiful? Confident?  Sassy?

She doesn’t officially have a name, however the girl down the street has dubbed her “The Snow Queen.”  And it has stuck.

So she is our snow queen.

She is the result of our weekend Snow Day.

It was a family affair, a first for this winter and perhaps for the entire season.  And we definitely took advantage.

I only had one food color.  Blue.  I filled two spray bottles with colored water and we went to town.  

Fuschia scarf.
Charcoal buttons.
Dead grass hair.
Carrot nose.
Coffee ground eyes.  (Yes!)

And then we came in for cocoa.  And Coffee.  And it was beautiful.

Behind every successful woman is a substantial amount of coffee.  ~Stephanie Piro


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Easy as pie.

“If it was that easy everyone would be doing it.” 

Not. Exactly. True. 
Some people genuinely don’t know how to save money.  It’s a skill set that is learned.  (And trust me, I have learned some hard lessons along the way.)
I find myself trapped in a culture that is continually trying to manipulate me into thinking I need everything right now.  And I can do it on credit!  Bad idea.  Very.  Bad.  Idea.

Now I love Saturday morning cartoons as much as the next girl.  (Grownups are still allowed to watch those, right???)  But the commercials!  They are so heavily marketed towards my children especially that it makes me ill.  My three sweet daughters are convinced they need a Happy Napper(I have yet to fully understand how they are much different from the plethora of Pillow Pets they already own.)  They are wishing for Stompeez (Slippers that open their eyes or mouth when you stomp.  Just what every parent needs.)  and my dear hubby and I can’t live without a Forever Lazy.  (Ummm… no.)

I am always looking to save a buck for the family, but its not as hard you might think.  A few of my favorite ways to save:

1.  Watch for tricks.  Stores are always running sale and specials, but sometimes they sound too good to be true… and they are.  For example, if you have $1.00 item that is on Buy One Get One 1/2 Off sale, you would pay $1.50 for 2 of them which amounts $.75 each.  Doesn’t sound too bad.  If the store were running a 30% off sale on the same $1.00 item, it would amount to $.70… a better deal!  Most people gravitate to the BOGO sales, but they are not necessarily the best deal.  Use a calculator if you have to, and be smart.

2.  Ditch the landline.  We were paying close to $50.00 a month for a basic land line phone that no one ever called except for the occasional telemarketer.  Even though hubby and I both have cell phones, I still worried about not having a home phone when we had a babysitter over or for other emergenices.  For us the answer was Magic Jack.  The initial device is about $70, then only $19.95 for a year of service.  Yes.  A whole year, including call waiting, caller id and voicemail.  The device plugs into your computer or in to an electrical outlet and uses your internet to make the service work.  We have never had a problem.  So worth it.
3.  Go partial.  I like to look good, and I am usually willing to spend a little cash to make that happen.  I used to spend close to $100 to get my hair cut and highlighted until my lovely hairdresser let me in on a little secret.  A partial highlight cost less than half of that and produced almost the same results.  A partial highlights the top layer of your hair, the part that everyone sees.  Makes total sense!  Now I can get the same look for less than $50.
4.  Cut back on cable.  How many channels do you really need?  Unfortunately, I live in a rural area where we get nothing but PBS.  We have the most basic of cable only to watch football.  (Go Packers!)  And the Olympics. In fact, we actually saved money on our cable bill by adding basic tv service to our internet service.  They love to bundle services together!  Go figure!

We also subscribe to Netflix streaming service for $7.99/month.  The movie selection isn’t that great, but their TV show selection is incredible.  My girls can watch all of their favorite Nickelodeon shows, hubby gets his Discovery Channel fix, and I get to catch up on my favorite crime dramas.  And the best part?  No commercials.

5.  Eating out.  We don’t eat out too often, but when we do, we’re pretty smart about it.  Know which restaurants offer Kids Eat Free nights.  Usually they happen on weekdays and even in our town there is at least one restaurant for each day of the week.

Order water (drinks are the most over-priced item on the menu!) and if possible, eat out at lunch instead of dinner.  Prices are lower and portions smaller.  Better for your budget and waistline!

Split an order with another family member (depending on where you’re dining, portions can be massive) especially for a picky eater.  I hate spending the money for a mediocre “Kids Meal” that is ultimately left uneaten.  Don’t be afraid to ask for an extra plate and let your child share your meal.

6.  Pay cash for vehicles.  I haven’t made a car payment in nearly 5 years.  Perfect?  No.  Paid for?  You betcha.  Look on Craigslist.  Search the paper.  Talk to people around town.  There are deals to be had.  And if you don’t know anyone who knows anything about cars… make friends with one.  We own two vehicles.  Both paid for.  Not having a car payment has been one of the most financially liberating decisions we have ever made as a family.  The vehicles we drive are not as new as the ones we used to drive, but… they’re paid for.
And that makes all the difference.

Now if I could just figure out a way to get my coffee for free… nah.  
It’s worth every penny.
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Snow Day.

You had me at “Winter Storm Warning.”  

And “Travel Not Advised.” 

Better late than never.  

This is the day I have wished for

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I have nowhere to be, except wallowing in the white with three happy kidlets.

I.  Love.  Snow.

I have steeled myself with a double dose of hot coffee and I am preparing to venture out.


When it is all said and done, the yard will be populated with all manner of snowmen and snow angels and snow forts will abound to house each one.  


And when we eventually find ourselves frosty and frozen… there will be cocoa.  

Creamy.  Steamy.  Cocoa.

It’s Iowa.  It snows.   And I like it.

Oh happy day.




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Discovery.

Fresh discovery is a wonder.  

Crisp.  
Invigorating.  
Motivating.

My fabulous hubby truly surprised me this past Christmas with a new coffee grinder.  It’s entirely superb and just the thought of using it is enough to propel me out of bed in the morning.  This morning, creativity struck unusually early (before coffee… a serious marvel in itself).  I tossed a bit of cinnamon stick into the grinder along with my beloved beans. 

Perfection.

Nevermind the fact that this Iowa winter is breaking century-old weather records with 60 degree temperatures this week.  I close my eyes, warm cup in hand, and envision a winter wonderland.  The weatherman is suggesting my wish may come true this weekend, in which case, we will finally be breaking out the sleds.  (Woohoo!)

In the meantime, it is 61 degrees and I am taking the kidlets to the library… on foot.

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Four Piles.

So this moving thing…

has been good in a way.  In our current situation, another move could be imminent, but perhaps not.  The story is complicated, but long story short, we are again renting a home and sincerely hoping to buy something in the near future.  Finding something we really love, that we are willing to shell out the big bucks for is a whole other story.  I am pretty sure we have commitment issues.

So we wait…

In the meantime, I am seizing this opportunity to purge in a big way, and score a little extra cash in the process.  (And who isn’t trying to find an extra buck these days???)
I should preface this by saying I do not do garage sales.  (As in having them.  I have been know to peruse a good sale once in awhile.)  In my experience, they are simply too much work for too little return.  Seriously, my time is worth so much more than sticking little neon price stickers on a hundred boxes of junk.  
So.  Not.  Worth.  It.
Four Piles.  That’s what I call it.  It’s my system.  And it works. 
Pile Numero Uno:  The Good Stuff
All the good stuff (meaning anything worth a little something) goes into the pile that will inevitably end up on Ebay(I go on a listing frenzy once my pile is big enough to warrant it.) 

Little treasures that would go for pennies at a sale (or not at all!) can often be golden to a global Ebay audience.  Old stuff is vintage.  And that is a good thing.  Everyone is looking for something.

It can seem intimidating at first, but the process is really quite simple (and monetarily rewarding!).  I’ve unloaded all kinds of things for quick cash including speakers, unopened cosmetics, handbags, a guitar, a violin, books, old cell phones, bracelet charms, video games, etc.  

There is a minimal listing fee and a Final Value Fee assessed once the transaction is complete.  At the end of the day, the extra cash far outweighs what you’d make at a garage sale.
And always check the vintage stuff.  I recently discovered some of my childhood toys are going for insane amounts of cash!  (Like my old Charmkin accessories!  Or my Rainbow Brite!  Mom, I’ll be calling you later to see if these are still in your basement…)

Pile, Part Deux:  The Big Stuff
Some stuff is just too big.  I know people do it all the time, but selling the big stuff on Ebay is a hassle.  Shipping can be a bear.  (I once sold a large vintage amp on Ebay and beside the fact that I could barely wrangle my then 18-month-old and the beastly machine into the UPS store, I completely underestimated on shipping costs.  Lesson learned.)

Anything of value that is too big gets listed on Craigslist.  Or more recently my local area swap page on facebook.  I prefer this because it easier, simple and completely local.  Check facebook to see if your area has a swap page.  It is basically a free newspaper ad that reaches a heck of lot more potential customers.  They are popping up all over facebook and are entirely convenient.
Pile #3:  The Okay Stuff

The okay stuff gets donated.  Plain and simple.  For me, this means mostly clothes and shoes.  Unless you are dealing with high-end designer labels, old prom dresses, or a good men’s suit, clothing doesn’t usually bring in much cash.  Our family has been continually blessed with hand-me-downs from good friends that I feel compelled to give back that way.
The 4th Pile:  The Junk
Anything no longer of any value to anyone goes here, destined for the landfill, the recycling bin or repurposing.  This includes anything broken beyond repair.  Clothes that are not in good enough condition to donate are cut up for cleaning rags
So I’ve got my work cut out for me.  After continually moving around the same unpacked boxes the last 9 years of my life, I am looking forward to Great Purge of 2012 (and a couple extra dollars in my pocket).  Its going to be awesome.

Firing up the coffee machine…  All systems go.

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Jumble.

My mind is in a bit of a jumble this morning.  So many things bouncing around my coconut. (I had a college professor from Africa who would often say “Use your coconut,” referring to our brains. And it stuck.)

Some things that are on my mind:

1.  Reading The Circle Maker by Mark Batterson.  Incredible.  Challenging.  This book is changing me.  I really need this.

2.  Just returned from a Leadership Conference with my hubby where we took the Strengths Finder 2.0 assessment and listened to Dr. Alina Lehnert from Evangel University.  Ummm… wow.  I feel empowered by what I have learned about myself and my husband and the leadership team we work with on a regular basis.  This is going to be very good for our marriage and life in general.  I can see how this would be a valuable tool for premarital counseling…

(You can get the book here which includes an online code to take the assessment:  Strengths Finder 2.0)

3.  Still thinking about the movie, Courageous, which I saw for the first time last night.  I strongly dislike movies that make me bawl like a baby.  A little cheesy, but powerfully moving.  Holding my babies tighter.  Thankful my husband is a fabulous daddy to our princesses.  All in all, it was good.

4.  I need to devise a serious plan of attack this week.  I am completely over committed in the coming weeks (errr… months?).  This could get interesting…

5.  I am really crazy about my girls.  And my hubby.  And I really just want to hang out with them more.  Totally going to make this happen.

Go ahead.  Pour an extra cup.  It’s Monday….

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   The revelation of God is whole
      and pulls our lives together.
   The signposts of God are clear
      and point out the right road.
   The life-maps of God are right,
      showing the way to joy.
   The directions of God are plain
      and easy on the eyes.
   God‘s reputation is twenty-four-carat gold,
      with a lifetime guarantee.
   The decisions of God are accurate
      down to the nth degree. 



Psalm 19.7-9 (The Message)

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Rewind.

Today has been one of those days where I wish, wish, wish I could have just crawled back into bed to draw up the covers and stay there for the next 12 hours… or at least until my sweet husband got home from work to rescue me. 

One and half weeks of pretty decent potty training efforts culminated in ultimate disaster today.  And by disaster, I mean that I am pretty sure my little Lovey is deliberately plotting against me.  I am not overstating when I say that this is my absolute least favorite part of being a mother.  I would give almost anything to let someone else do this job.  I am not sure what is worse, the additional excesses of laundry or the pure grossness of it all.

Add to that the smashed snow globe on the dining room floor, Lovey playing “sandbox” in the Malt-O-Meal she intentionally dumped in the kitchen, and the week-old sippy cup discovery I made under the couch… I was seriously pining for a real life rewind button.

I love my girlies.  They really are angels most of the time.  Today was not one of them.  

Ready to start again tomorrow…

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Cinnamon Rolls in Solitude.

If I were to give it a title, I am not sure what I would call it.  When people are up late into the evening, it is often called the “witching hour.”  

This is completely opposite.

I am up early.  As usual.  It’s my favorite time of day.  My sweet girls are still nestled snugly in their beds.  Dear hubby has yet to awaken (amazing since I hit the snooze button approximately 4 times…)  I am accompanied only by my coffee, the last of yesterday’s homemade cinnamon rolls, and the solitude.

It’s Monday and my calendar is full, this week especially.  Still praying for some really big things to happen.  Waiting can be a restless time.  Yet in this precious morning hour, it is easy to forget the pressures and the constraints of life.  They are easily erased by a painted morning sunrise.

Coffee helps.  And so do homemade cinnamon rolls.  

Here is my favorite recipe.  It’s easy, quick (no-rise!), and entirely superb.



No-Rise Cinnamon Rolls

2 c. all-purpose flour
2 T. white sugar
4 tsp. baking powder
1 tsp. salt
¼ c. butter, chilled
2 T. butter, softened
1 c. cold milk
3 tsp. ground cinnamon
4 T. white sugar

For glaze:
½ c. confectioner’s sugar
3 T. milk

1. In a large bowl, combine flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt.  Cut in ¼ c. butter or margarine until crumbly.  Make a well in center, and pour in milk.  Stir to form a soft dough, adding a bit more milk if needed.

3.  Turn dough out on lightly floured surface.  Knead 8 to 10 times.  Roll into rectangle about 1/3 inch thick and 12 inches long.  Spread softened butter over dough.  Sprinkle cinnamon and sugar over dough rectangle.  Roll up as for jelly roll.  Mark first, then cut into 12 slices.  Place cut side down in muffin pan.

4.  Bake at 400 degrees for 20 – 25 minutes.  Turn out on a tray.

5.  To confectioner’s sugar, add enough milk or water to make a thin glaze.  Drizzle over cinnamon rolls.

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There’s nothing sweeter than a cup of bitter coffee.  
~Rian Aditia
 

Tea is for Tacos.

Don’t get me wrong.  Coffee is truly unrivaled in my kitchen.  I savor every drop.  

There is Morning Coffee.  

Mid-morning coffee.  

Afternoon coffee (often accompanied by some home-baked goodness).  

5-o-clock-making-dinner-my-children-have-all-turned-into-monkeys-desperate-for-my-husband-to-get-home-from-work-coffee.

There is just so much to love about coffee.

However…

I can hardly stomach a day without my evening tea.  I prefer peppermint, sometimes with just a smidge of honey.  I can’t imagine a more perfect nightcap than losing myself in a lovely book by low lamplight and sipping hot tea.

Besides being wildly relaxing, one of my favorite benefits to drinking hot peppermint tea is the way it aids indigestion and eases stomach discomfort.  I have always had a sensitive stomach, although I find as I get older I am learning to love more spicy foods (like the insane amounts hot taco sauce I sloshed onto my tacos earlier this evening after which I often spend the evening lying on the couch thinking, “Why me?”)  Tonight, I conducted a pre-emptive strike on my impending stomach woes by taking my tea early… and no problem

Peppermint tea is also believed to aid in mild asthma, vomiting, and headaches.  During pregnancy, it was the only thing that helped me survive morning sickness and heartburn and its stress-relieving properties are unmatched (except only perhaps by coffee).

And with that my friends I say…

Cheerio!

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